Monday, August 6, 2012

Is it time to sloooooooooooooow down?

Is it time to take a moment to reconsider how we are spending our time and perhaps slow down?

It's a reoccurring conversation I find myself having with a lot of different people. Things are moving so fast with our busy lives and all the technology around us, bombarding us with more and more information at a faster and faster rate. I do feel at some point we are all just going to implode as a society. If everything continues to speed up at such a fast clip how will we be able to absorb, adapt and handle it?


im·plode

 verb \im-ˈplōd\
im·plod·edim·plod·ing


1. to collapse inward as if from external pressure: also: to become greatly reduced as if from collapsing

2. to break down or fall apart from within, self-destruct



I know, is this ironic coming from me? The women who moves at a high rate of speed, with a life firmly entrenched in the very technology I'm speaking of?

But I'm paying attention, taking things off my plate and gradually making little changes here and there to slow things down a bit. 

I believe we have to. There is simply no way to absorb the inspiration and information we are exposed to in a way that will ultimately benefit us. To learn from or to enjoy something, it often has to be pondered, taken in and explored, even savored while waiting for it's lesson, value or beauty to be revealed to us. That can't happen when skimming an image of a fantastic room in 3 seconds. The best parts are certain to be missed.

A number of things have gotten me thinking about this. It's the stress I initially feel whenever I hear of some new form of technology that has been introduced that everyone is loving. Seriously!? Something else I have to learn and add to my plate? It's the comment that came in just minutes after releasing an issue of House of Fifty. "Just read it, it's great! Best one yet, loved it all!" Okay, I'm going to just be blunt here. Thank you, but I don't know what they did but they didn't read it. It was skimmed, just as so many of us have put ourselves in situations where there is so much information to take in on a daily basis that the best we can do is skim. And unfortunately that means we are probably missing the best parts of what we are choosing to expose ourselves to and participate in. It takes time to absorb and gather information properly and we are simply not giving ourselves that time. There isn't enough time to take it all in, and yet we try...skimming content, and in fact, skimming through our lives as well, barely noticing the details that make it all worthwhile and meaningful.

I don't know what the answer is. But perhaps the first thing to do is simply stop to consider the question. Does this resonate for your life? Personally, I'm taking more and more things off my plate. Some things I've taken off because they no longer fit, others I can pass on to someone else (like the cleaning of my house for example, leaving me more time to just relax or do activities with the kids). Other items removed from the daily schedule prove to be more difficult decisions to make. I miss some of them, but its necessary. What do I want to foster in my life and how does that mean I should be spending my time?



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24 comments:

Kristen said...

AGREED. Mainly, I just need to slow down. Life has been so busy, and I have been taking on way more than I need to, which can get very stressful. Lately, I have just wanted to hide under a rock and ignore all emails! :( Good to hear someone else understands.

Andrea said...

Great post and I read the entire thing. ha! I have been having these thoughts as well lately and I am working on my own little way of slowing down. Thanks for the pep talk!

Janell @ House of Fifty said...

LOL Andrea...thanks for reading! Janell

Bookdrawer said...

I have to agree I have to force myself to sit outside and enjoy the nice days without thinking about what I have to get done.

Courtney {a thoughtful place} said...

Well, you know how I feel! I love that you started the conversation. I think just saying it's okay to feel overwhelmed with the quantity of information will help all of us begin to focus on the quality. I, too, am taking things off of my plate so that I can appreciate and really be present with the technology I do take in. Could be easier said than done.

Judy said...

Your post sounds like it was written about me. It's so tough to slow down. I want to give my all to everything but it's almost not possible.

Clean Design Fan said...

I can't agree with this more. Today it seems like such a race to be up on what's next and letting people know it. I believe Summer creates a perfect environment to slow down and that mindset should be year round.

Enjoyed this post very much...

Bethany [at] Powell Brower Home said...

i just read your post and while i was reading it, i was bucking the system the whole way thru. then i stopped (point of the story, right) and thought about how it resonates to me and was a bit taken aback at how much i did actually relate. slowing down is a pretty essential part of life, huh? sometimes, when mom and i are so busy installing our projects or making deadlines, its those nights when I slip into bed and feel like i barely talked to my hubby that day and didnt even take time to do the dog's yoga routine (yep, the dog does yoga... dont judge :)). I sometimes feel like my chest is tight and I never really take a full breath of air. All signs I'm taking too much in, just skimming the surface. I need to invest in myself at least for a moment or two a week. Nice of you to bring it to my attention :)

Annie @ House on Rene said...

Moderation in all things is key. This life only comes around once and we should remember it. Not fill it so full that we are too tired to take a look around and be grateful.

Always great advice dear! Thank you.

Laura@Elegant Nest said...

Wow...this post sure resonates with me today! It is one of those busy days with umpteen things on my plate and as I was skimming your post (because I did not want to miss it before running out the door) I stopped and slowed down to read it all. Thanks for the reminder...we all need one now and again!

Marissa@ohhhsolovely said...

i love your take on this! i feel the same way, which is, perhaps, the reason i have never used facebook. i think technology is wonderful...to a certain extent! as the school year begins, i am trying to figure out ways to relieve myself from other responsibilities in order to just enjoy life more!

http://ohhhsolovely.blogspot.com/

Pauline Wiles said...

Indeed. We're lucky (many of us) to live in times of such abundance - we eat too much, we buy too much, we try to absorb too much. Combining internet usage and smart phones, I suspect we're now seeing enough information in a day to last a desert island castaway for a year.

I can't remember the last time I was 'bored'. In fact, I think that word may drop out of modern language altogether - at least for adult women with homes and families!

thepainterfamily said...

hello!

i just wanted to pop in and say that I loved this reminder. a little treasure in my google reader!! I really love the quote you shared at the end :) It's from a talk that I've read a few times.

And I totally feel sheepish (i never comment :) but thought maybe you'd like it too?

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/of-things-that-matter-most?lang=eng

ps
thanks for all you do, i enjoy your perspective.

Tiffany @ {Living Savvy} said...

Well said! I really do think we living our life skimming... and not really immersing ourselves! Take a break... slow down! You, if no one else deserves it!

Nicole Shah said...

Great post! What happened to the days when they seemed so long and the weekends felt like a mini-vacay. I'm constantly in a race with the clock....can't seem to catch-up. Thank you for your perspective on what seems to be a common thread in most households today.

autumn said...

i could not agree more. i have been feeling this pull to "unplug" for a while now. i was recently talked into creating a twitter and Facebook account for my business, and i have to say that i am really feeling some pressure to produce "tweet-worthy" thoughts and updates. i kinda hate it. i feel like it is just one more thing to DO. society tells us that if we aren't here (blogging), and there (twitter) and everywhere (instagram, Facebook, linked-in, pinterest, etc..), we are going to be forgotten. stalled. stagnant.
OR...maybe we get to spend more times with the ones we love---without all those electronic distractions.

judi said...

i don't believe anything is coincidental. as in i happen to pick up a book off my shelf this morning before getting out of bed. the title? "finding rest-when the work is never done" by patrick klingaman. the page i flipped open to was entitled, "be aware of life's energy drainers"... and then i opened up your post. i am being made aware of an issue in my life...and i love when this happens as it did this morning.
we will implode us unless we take the time to rest and refresh. we do need to absorb and meditate on what speaks to us. for me that is scripture, creation, and a good book where i find my rest and refreshment. who hasn't gone on a long walk in a park, along the beach or a nature reserve and not felt refreshed?
so lets go get some rest & refreshment before we implode & explode all over our beautiful decor and family!

daiseyjayne said...

A quote I love,

“There is more to life than increasing its speed” Gandhi

I've never been one to race around, text constantly etc. I don't understand it, life is short just ask someone in their 80's. Why would I ever want to speed it up? I'm a mother of three young adult sons and a business owner and I believe in taking time and the slow movement.
Thanks for the great post!

Carmel @ Our Fifth House said...

Such a great post - I think the iPhone may be the ultimate death of man .......or at least of man's ability to actually communicate face to face. ;)

All this technology makes my head hurt. This is one of the very reasons why i refuse to use an e-reader------I refuse to let technology into my quiet reading time.

Nancy said...

You're spot on, Janell. I sure don't know where this society is headed except for non face-to-face communicato. Very worrisome indeed. It's a tough balance and we ALL know what is more important . Putting family first, savoring relationships, being kind, doing for others, and not loosing your true self- it's a shame that we even need a reminder. I love your post.
xo Nancy
Powellbrowerhome.com

the poor sophisticate said...

I have been feeling this way as well lately.... Thank you that was so well put. I always enjoy what you have to say :)
-Molly Branstetter
thepoorsophisticate.blogspot.com

My Garden Diaries said...

I just finished reading a book called Simplicity Parenting. A great read and in many ways connects to what your post was all about. The pace we have set as a society is not natural and the affects that it has on our children is not good. Thank you for addressing this and bravo to you for making changes!

Lori said...

I love this post! I subscribe to a ton of blogs, and lately it seems a lot of "influential" bloggers are feeling overloaded and wanting to take a break. And feeling so guilty about it! From my solo perspective, I don't care if someone posts everyday or every other week, as long as the content is meaningful. To think that people are making themselves nuts to post everyday, when we wouldn't miss a one or five - seriously. Lives come first.

Megan {Honey We're Home} said...

I understand completely what you are saying. I'm in a transition period in my life right now and reevaluating everything- now each thing I do each day feels very deliberate, as opposed to just rushing and skimming. And I will say when your mag comes out, I wait to read until I have some time when I can sit down and actually enjoy it. I always look for my friend Courtney's article first:)